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All of us here at Jacobs Berger want to reassure our clients and business associates that their health and safety are our primary concern and that we are also committed to the health and safety of our staff and our families. Though we are currently working remotely, we continue to operate as we always have, providing quality service and for us, it is “business as usual.”


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Dating Relationships and Domestic Violence

What is Considered a Dating Relationship? Domestic Violence Attorneys in Morris County

Dating Relationships in Domestic Violence Attorneys in Morris County NJ

Domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of race, age, sexual orientation, religion, or gender.

What is Considered a Dating Relationship? Domestic Violence Attorneys in Morris County Domestic Violence is a pattern of physical, emotional, verbal, and sexual abuse, which includes, but is not limited to, threats, intimidation, isolation, and/or financial control. Domestic Violence can continue over a long period of time and becomes more frequent and more severe over time.

Domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of race, age, sexual orientation, religion, or gender. It affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels, occurring in both opposite-sex and same-sex relationships and can happen to intimate partners who are married, living together, or dating.

Typically, who can be a victim of domestic violence?

Domestic violence acts are established by the relationship between the offender and the victim. A person protected by the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act is 18 years of age or older, or who is an emancipated minor, and who has been subjected to domestic violence by a spouse, former spouse, or any other person who is a present or former household member. Any person, regardless of age, sex, or physical/psychological condition, who has been subjected to domestic violence by one of the following individuals:

  • A person with whom the victim has a child in common
  • A person with whom the victim anticipates having a child in common if one of the parties is pregnant.
  • A person with whom the victim has had a dating relationship.

What do the Courts consider a dating relationship?

What do the Courts consider a dating relationship?There is no exact legal definition of a “dating relationship” in New Jersey that can be used in these types of cases. In fact, “dating” is an ambiguous term that will have different meanings for different people. For some, a dating relationship is means date nights and meeting the parents, for others it may mean taking vacations or living together.

There are several criteria to determine a dating relationship according to the law:

  1. Was there a minimal social interpersonal bonding of the parties over and above mere casual fraternization?
  2. How long did the alleged dating activities continue prior to the acts of domestic violence alleged?
  3. What were the nature and frequency of the parties’ interactions?
  4. What were the parties’ ongoing expectations with respect to the relationship, either individually or jointly?
  5. Did the parties demonstrate an affirmation of their relationship before others by statement or conduct?
  6. Are there any other reasons unique to the case that support or detract from a finding that a “dating relationship” exists?

How did C.C v. J.A.H Change how Dating and Domestic Violence Are viewed?

The New Jersey Appellate Division on June 11th made a landmark decision involving a couple and domestic violence.  The couple had never gone on an actual date but saw each other on a regular basis at the gym.  They had never gone out to eat, to a movie, on a weekend trip, nothing of that sort. They never engaged in sexual relations, kissed, or even held hands. What they had done is exchange approximately 1,300 text messages in 5 weeks, including intimate/sexually toned texts. When one party began pressuring the other to have sex, insulting and threatening the other party. When one of the parties tried to cease the contact and end any further relationship, the other party’s communications became threatening and malicious which led to a request for a TRO (Temporary Restraining Order). It was denied because a dating relationship between them has not been adequately substantiated. The case was taken to to the New Jersey Appellate Division, where the decision was made in favor of the offended party. The court found that the relationship had transformed into a dating relationship which allowed the victim to be protected under the Domestic Violence Act.

In a dating relationship and need help? Consult with an Experienced Morristown Domestic Violence Attorney Today

Our unique approach to domestic violence issues centers around creating solutions to your problems. We understand just how important your safety is, and we are prepared to help you take the necessary steps to give you peace of mind. By listening carefully to all of your needs and concerns, and keeping you highly informed and involved throughout the legal process, we believe we can work together to achieve the results you need in your unique legal situation.

To schedule a confidential case assessment at Jacobs Berger today, please fill our contact form or through our Morristown, NJ office at (973) 718-7705.